I have known that I was transgendered for a long time. Like most others I continued to live and work as a male, marrying and tryingto be "normal". For a long time I would dress in women's clothing in secret and venturing out when the opportunity presented itself.
When my wife discovered Desire she tried to be understanding and we actually got along better in some ways. She finally realized she was missing a husband and we separated. As a newly single person I began dressing almost all the time until going to work was my only male time. Over time I grew my hair long and lost alot of weight.
I started wearing lingerie under my clothes to work and continued to be more feminine even when I was male. Last week I finally made a commitment to be female. Amazingly my employer has been fairly open minded and has allowed m eto continue working as Des. My first day in my new life was yesterday, October 4, 2007. I have adopted this as my rebirthday. Feel free to wish me a happy birthday.
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Hi Desire
Your experiences reflects much of my own experience when I first came out full time. Even the little things are so very exciting. But tell you what. When my Soul Mate and I take the car to the garage and they overcharged or fixed something that really didn't need it she is sis feet tall 250lbs she will tell them, well now are you doing this because I'm blond or a woman. I works.
Well Happy birthday sweets and will look forward in seeing you at the forums.
Cynthia
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